This post could just as easily be called 'on privacy' or 'on being assertive' or 'on being an individual who is a member of a collective'.
Basically, if I have time to do something I want to do or need to do, I always feel guilty anyway if I actually do it instead of doing something else. Not even necesssarily something else with a family member, or something else productive. Just something else. Doing things that are for myself just feels plain old wrong.
This post could just as easily be called 'A room of one's own'.